Character, and Soul.

Character is the outward manifestation of one’s soul.  Yes, we can fake it – but not for long.

I’ve decided to expand on some of the Tweets I’ve made that have struck the internet void.  In that mind, here is some of the thinking that occurred behind the scenes, within the dark recesses of a certifiably inane mind.  (And for those of you who don’t know me, which is essentially my entire virtual audience of none, I love puns… you have been warned.)

Ever wondered what defines and determines a person’s character?  I know I have.

I think our character is determined long before our birth.  Precisely when, I don’t know, though I suspect it is within that incredibly small period of time in which two separate strands of DNA reform into one.  Would that be “the moment of conception”?

Should you ask me why, I might refer you to studies done on identical twins separated at birth.  Do some research online, it is mind-boggling how similar they are.  Then compare the natures of normal twins, their moments of conception have to be pretty close, yet they seldom are in character – I know, I have twin sisters.

Many parents claim responsibility for the character of their children.  They are absolutely correct – in a very small part.  Indeed, without their physical intimacy, their children would never be conceived – if they were never conceived then any question of their character is moot.  However, to believe that your child is the person they are because of the way you bring them up?  Well, that is delusional.  Your treatment of your child certainly modifies the child’s behavior – modification, of their behavior is not change to their character.

Children  are born with their character, which is an outward manifestation of their soul.  Do you truly think you can shape a soul?  I know I can’t.

About C.G.Ayling

Musing misuser of words, lover of lyrical literature, author, occasional contrary thoughts. An honorable man’s name, in memoriam.
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