Is it even possible to feel, let alone love, the same way toward two separate people? Both intuitively and logically, I don’t think it is. No two people are the same. Nor are any two relationships the same. So believing we can feel the exact same way toward any two individuals really doesn’t make sense.
Perhaps part of the problem is how we humans are so intent on measuring things?
Why do we try and quantify our feelings?
Though they sometimes feel burdensome, do feelings actually have weight? Though we assign feelings depth, is depth a measure by which we should compare our feelings for any two people?
We know the ones we love. However measurements begin to fail when we attempt to determine those we love the most, and even worse, those we love the least.
Perhaps the truth is that love truly is incomparable?