{"id":3913,"date":"2014-06-06T11:38:57","date_gmt":"2014-06-06T16:38:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/?p=3913"},"modified":"2014-06-06T11:38:57","modified_gmt":"2014-06-06T16:38:57","slug":"infp-this-is-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/general\/infp-this-is-me\/","title":{"rendered":"INFP, this, is me!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Isn\u2019t it is fascinating how long it takes us to learn about ourselves?<\/p>\n<p>Only yesterday I found myself looking at the Twitter profile of a virtual acquaintance who has had a tremendous impact on me. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DaveGrigger\" target=\"_blank\">@DaveGrigger<\/a> included a personality profile as part of his Twitter Biography that revealed he is an INTP. A while ago I did a free Myers-Briggs profile test and discovered that my personality profile is INFP, my particular breakdown is Introversion &#8211; 78%, Intuition &#8211; 62%, Feeling &#8211; 16%, Perceiving &#8211; 49%.<\/p>\n<p>If you haven\u2019t taken this profile test I strongly encourage you to, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.16personalities.com\/free-personality-test\" target=\"_blank\">it is completely free and very well worth the time you&#8217;ll spend<\/a>. I found it fascinating to learn that some of the things we intuitively know about ourselves are more than just in our mind.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway\u2026 I\u2019ve known for a long time that I am an INFP, but thanks to <a title=\"another view of a special man\" href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@davegrigger\" target=\"_blank\">David Grigger<\/a>, I revisited myself and did a little research into something I have never considered before. Simply put, the results astonished to me.<\/p>\n<p>What am I talking about? <strong><em>About how my personality type affects my writing<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3914\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3914\" style=\"width: 500px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/INFP-writers.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3914\" src=\"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/INFP-writers.jpg\" alt=\"Characteristics of writers with the INFP personality profile.\" width=\"500\" height=\"600\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3914\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">General characteristics of writers with the INFP personality profile.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>First, I found the image above.\u00a0 It describes the general INFP writer. <strong><em>Weird d\u00e9j\u00e0 vu<\/em><\/strong>. I agreed with most, but not all of it. Which in itself seems to be a factor of the INFP personality. People are individuals, every single one of us. Yes, many of us do fit rather neatly into boxes \u2013 such as those defining personality traits. However sometimes we don\u2019t, and that is okay because we\u2019re all unique people. Just like you, there will never be another me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Onward!<\/strong> A little dissatisfied with the elements on the image that don\u2019t fit my own perception of myself, I continued my research into me. After a few false starts I found a really wonderful website called \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/andreajwenger.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Write with Personality<\/a>\u201d. The website is run by a lady named Andrea J. Wenger, who you can find on Twitter as <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AndreaJWenger\" target=\"_blank\">@AndreaJWenger<\/a>. Her site is full of amazing information.\u00a0 It is definitely worth visiting.\u00a0 Andrea&#8217;s site also happens to contain a page dedicated to me!<\/p>\n<p>{Okay, okay\u2026 the page isn\u2019t really dedicated to me, but to my Myers-Briggs Personality type. Namely the <a href=\"http:\/\/andreajwenger.com\/2009\/08\/15\/the-infp-writing-personality\/\" target=\"_blank\">INFP<\/a>.\u00a0 Close enough I say! :)}.<\/p>\n<p>Andrea\u2019s description of the INFP writer is insightful and startlingly accurate. Reading it felt as though someone who knew me better than I know myself had written a description of me. I learnt a lot about myself reading it, especially about my bad habits. {Yes, I was as shocked as you to learn I have more than a few of those!}<\/p>\n<p>The most striking of those bad habits is how I discovered I really am unconcerned with \u201c<strong><em>the facts<\/em><\/strong>\u201d. To my mind, facts are irrelevant little things behind which deceitful people often hide. <strong><em>The facts<\/em><\/strong> are used to distort things as often as they are used to prove points of view. To me, facts are only important when used as guide-marks toward truths. However, it is also apparent how my disregard of hard and fast facts is not shared by the majority of humanity. I should probably work harder trying to understand why facts are more important than feelings to so many. I probably should\u2026<\/p>\n<p>After reading all about me {isn\u2019t <em><strong>ourself<\/strong><\/em> a fascinating subject for almost every human?}, I decided to build my own image of myself as an INFP writer. The most difficult thing about doing this wasn\u2019t being honest, which I find easy. No, it was using explicit words to describe myself, which I find extremely difficult since it feels so strongly like blowing my own trumpet.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3921\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3921\" style=\"width: 667px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/INFP-this-is-me-v21.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3921\" src=\"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/INFP-this-is-me-v21.jpg\" alt=\"Individual characteristics of an INFP writer, namely me!\" width=\"667\" height=\"916\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3921\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Individual characteristics of an INFP writer, namely me!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Regardless of my discomfort, my version of my #INFP me appears above.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>{PS. If you\u2019d like to find out just how incredibly accurate the Myers-Briggs personality profile is, at least in my case and regarding my writing, head on over to the free sample of <a title=\"between the lines are as many words as upon them...\" href=\"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/samples\/malmaxa\/beltamars-war\/\">Beltamar\u2019s War<\/a>. I hope it entices you into purchasing my work!}<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Isn\u2019t it is fascinating how long it takes us to learn about ourselves? Only yesterday I found myself looking at the Twitter profile of a virtual acquaintance who has had a tremendous impact on me. @DaveGrigger included a personality profile as part of his Twitter Biography that revealed he is an INTP. 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