{"id":4328,"date":"2015-01-16T09:09:02","date_gmt":"2015-01-16T14:09:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/?p=4328"},"modified":"2015-01-16T09:09:02","modified_gmt":"2015-01-16T14:09:02","slug":"a-brothers-poem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/poetry\/a-brothers-poem\/","title":{"rendered":"A brother&#8217;s poem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In that it contains things that are personal to me, my blog is sort of like a diary. Today I&#8217;m tearing a page out of another person&#8217;s diary, that of my brother Jan. He sent me this email a few days ago, from Africa, where he still lives, to America, where I now reside.<\/p>\n<p>No big deal, right? I mean, an email happens virtually instantly, so all that&#8217;s happened is the world has been made a whole lot smaller. Wrong. Nothing makes the world smaller, nothing eliminates distance, and nothing replaces a touch.<\/p>\n<p>Read my brother&#8217;s missive, and weep with me for what the entire world is losing. And what is it that the world is losing? Family.<\/p>\n<p>Jan&#8217;s email message.<\/p>\n<p>In dim memory sometime, years back, I penned these words&#8230;<br \/>\nTo what avail? Time has passed.<br \/>\nThe deed is done.<br \/>\nYet I love you all still.<br \/>\nJan.<\/p>\n<p>~ Worlds Apart ~<\/p>\n<p>We live with our children in separate cities<br \/>\nApart from one another<br \/>\nIn separate countries<br \/>\nOn separate continents<br \/>\nIn separate hemispheres<br \/>\nOur hot wet summers are your icy snowbound winters<br \/>\nYour hot humid summers are our cool winter days<\/p>\n<p>Our children grow up not knowing one another<br \/>\nYet we are family, one family spread far apart<br \/>\nHow long do we endure our self-imposed separation?<br \/>\nAnd what becomes of the love we have for each other<br \/>\nFrom desolate days to lonely years spent in intercontinental isolation<br \/>\nThe vastness of distance refuses to be overcome by brief sojourns<br \/>\nWe cannot catch up with each other while we do not walk the same paths<br \/>\nOur children learn otherworldly pastimes and play games<br \/>\nBut not with each other, and then not even the same games<\/p>\n<p>I yearn for the times we shared<br \/>\nTogether in the wild places of Africa<br \/>\nFor the memories of childhood and youth<br \/>\nOf times on farms with brothers<br \/>\nOn rivers with family and friends<br \/>\nOf boats and trucks and tents and tiger fish<br \/>\nKudu and cotton and bushpigs and mealies<br \/>\nWhere has it gone?<br \/>\nWill our children ever be together?<br \/>\nDo we just grow old and leave it too late?<\/p>\n<p>Will we really be together then?<br \/>\nWish I could look forward to that time, only I don\u2019t know when<br \/>\nAnd where will our mother be then?<br \/>\nWill our babies know their granny then?<br \/>\nWish it could be when, at least we were together<br \/>\nDid Africa really tear us apart?<br \/>\nOr did we only imagine it happened that way<br \/>\nWhile we do it by ourselves?<br \/>\nHope it\u2019s not too late now<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s turn back the clock to our future together<\/p>\n<p>Will we come home then, when we need to be in Africa now?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In that it contains things that are personal to me, my blog is sort of like a diary. Today I&#8217;m tearing a page out of another person&#8217;s diary, that of my brother Jan. He sent me this email a few days ago, from Africa, where he still lives, to America, where I now reside. No [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-poetry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4328","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4328"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4328\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cgayling.com\/malmaxa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}